Tag: Positivity

  • Mindful Living – A Dream Place Where Mind Is Without Fear

    Mindful Living – A Dream Place Where Mind Is Without Fear

    We procrastinate our journey to success due to a lack of confidence or fear of failure. The thought of getting going itself sends a feeling of insecurity and fear. The reason for the fear could be anything – judgement, failure, family, relatives, strangers. The more we look outside for inspiration, the more you see reasons to pull yourself back. Hence it is imperative to fight the fear. Where mind is without fear, we attain unbeleivable feats. To get rid of fear we need to be awake, mindful.

    Mindfulness 4-min

    Where mind is without fear

    Fear, as we said is a deterrent to success. When we focus our energy in the right track, we defeat our fear. Mindful living is the best way to accomplish this. We see our surroundings vividly, our perspectives grow and we find ourselves and see ourselves in better light with clarity.

    Being mindful helps us in fighting anxiety, stress and other psychological situations and also helps us in developing the focus and develop productivity. Once we enter this zone of our mind, slowly we kick the fear out of our mind. Where mind is without fear, the following happen.

    Benefits of mindful living

    Amidst the numerous benefits, of mindful living, the following are the most prominent and commonly attained and searched for my laymen.

    • Boosts performance
    • Enhances confidence
    • Increases resilience
    • More self control
    • Better sleep
    • Enhances confidence

    Practicing mindfulness

    When mind is without fear

    Practicing mindfulness is not a herculean task nor an easy one. To train your mind to be in the moment and to prevent it from wandering around as well as bringing in negative energy, immense practice and perseverance is needed. With more research and information coming out in relation with mindful living, more are more people have started learning about it.

    Mindfulness is the practice of bringing your awareness to the present moment at the present physical location that you are in. In short the experience is something that you view as a third person. You need to find yourself out of it. You need not attain any special talent to practice mindfulness. It is a natural skill of human beings, but it need to be practiced with the help of a mindfulness coach if you need to attain maximum results. This way you defeat your fear and where mind is without fear you are leading a mindful living.

    Another important factor that your must know about being mindful is that it is not cconnected with any religion. It has nothing to do with your will power. It is all about the practice.

    When Mind is without fear

    Get rid of the excuses

    The most common excuses that we give to not do anything is lack of time. So, let me tell you that if lack of time is your excuse, them mindfulness is your solution. Because with mindfulness if you start living your life in awareness, you become more productive and hence your planning becomes way more effective.

    It starts with seeing the minutest details of things around you and the texture, color, consistency. Slowly build up and widen your vision. Observe yourself as a third person without engaging in the train of thoughts. This is a slow and lengthy transformation. Hence if you are not able to accomplish it in one week, or one month, don’t get disheartened. Stay with us for more updates and tips on mindful living and get rid of all your fears. Because where mind is without fear you become your God.

  • Best Morning Routine For Holistic Wellness

    Before we proceed , I would like to share a happy news with all of you. You will soon be dealing with a Holistic Wellness as well as Health and Nutrition Life Coach. Yes! My dream is soon to be accomplished. Wellness is not about losing weight and eating only ‘healthy’. It is also about feeling good about yourself and having a positive vibe. To have a a positive day, you must have a positive morning. Yes, the vibe you receive and emanate first in the morning stays with you the whole day. So a social media foray should never be your first morning routine. Let’s see what should be the ideal morning routine for wellness.

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    Morning routine for wellness:

    1. Sit on the bed and meditate

    Don’t barge into the bathroom to brush and pee. You need to start a day on a positive note, which means you need to imbibe positivity. Close your eyes and meditate for atleast a few seconds. Think of the most beautiful imagery – It could be your child’s toothless smile, or romantic verse by your partner or even a movie dialogue. Think only about it.

    Don’t let your thoughts divert to what will I be cooking today or any such thoughts.

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    2. Transmit the energy

    Rub your hands , warm them and press them to your face. This practice gives you an immense energy drive that pumps you up for the day. Do this daily and you will feel an unprecedented change in your life

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    3. Drink as much as water

    Stomach full of water first thing in the morning is a medicine that you can treat you with. This you have to drink before brushing.

    4. Listen to a prayer or melody

    A soothing music can be food to the mind to bring our positive vibrations. It is like a cleansing, a morning brain detox like the morning detox drinks.

    Morning routine
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    5. Have a morning detox drink

    It could be fenugreek water, apple cider vinegar or simply sugarless coffee. Yes sugarless coffee can also be ingested as a detox drink.

    Don’ts of morning routine

    • Don’t panic
    • Don’t rush
    • Don’t be in haste

    These are not just morning routines for wellness. These are ate stepping stones for ultimate holistic wellness. Keep following Holistic Wellness with RJ for more wellness indulgence.

  • The Importance Of Saying No For Eternal Positivity

    Being positive doesn’t mean that you should always say positive answers to everyone’s request and “order”. Being positive also means that you should severe that which affect your peace of mind. Quite often you would have come across situations where you feel that you are being taken for granted. You keep quiet. Why?Because that person is sweet to you. Or Because you don’t want to offend anyone. Result? You end up being frustrated and feeling low.

    Importance of saying no

    Learn to say NO

    Firstly, what you need to perceive is that positivity doesn’t mean positive answers. You can say a NO and still be positive because, with a simple NO, you could keep the further negative thoughts at bay.

    You bottle up the emotions, frustrations and end up burning out.

    Being there for someone is easier said than done. But if you are being there for someone who doesn’t value it, then it’s an injustice you do to yourself and your self-worth. So next time you hesitate to say a NO ask yourself because now you know the importance of saying no.

    Questions to ask yourself:

    1. Is it wrong to deny?

    ‘I can’t say no to anyone because if feel guilty.’ You might come across this line quite often or said it yourself. But have you ever asked yourself why?

    You are conditioned to behave in a certain way that you make everyone happy. Be kind, compassionate – These lines are instilled so deep that you have lost the discretion of whom to be kind and compassionate.

    You are mature enough to realize if you are being taken for granted. If you let yourself being subjected to it, whom should you blame? YOURSELF!

    2. Will it hurt anyone?

    As simple as it sounds, the question is equally tricky. If someone is there to make you feel that you hurt them, the decision to see through the pretence is up to you. Beyond this ‘victim play’ if you think logically, and still feel that your No will hurt them, you shouldn’t ent. But ‘anyone’ includes you as well.

    Will it hurt you? Will you go on a contemplative mode about ‘Why didn’t I deny? , Why can’t I deny’ Therre you go you are hurting yourself.

    3. Will it give me happiness and peace?

    Sometimes, denial is tough. But once you put your door down and take the decision, you would feel like a burden is out of your brain. This is classic situation of toxic relations – be it friendships, or relationships.

    We have grown up in country that gave birth to Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa. We are brought up with the ideology that we should help others and keep ourselves as second priority. We should indeed help those who are in need not the ones who need you for their selfish needs. Recognise them and keep them at bay without guilt. This post might sound like a negative one, but trust me this is the ultimate step to eternal positivity. Hold those that value you right but keep those that use you at bay. Learn the importance of saying NO! Say it without guilt.